Insulting 1st impressions

Current mood: thoughtful


I have decreed that any man who asks me if I have a man upon our first meeting has insulted me and is not worthy of any more of my time.
I don't have a wedding ring. That means I am not married.
A man at a bar approached me and persisted to open with
" Do you have a man?"
"Why?"
"Because I wouldn't want to be disrespectful."
"Oh, what would you say to me that would be disrespectful if I had a man?"
"I don't know"
"But the plan was to disrespect me if I wasn't out without a protector?"
"Not at all."
"You kinda already have."
The way I feel about it is: My sex life and deep seeded emotions are none of your business. Especially if you don't know my name. Or where I'm from or if I have siblings or where I work or my belief in God.
You don't know ANYTHING about me, but you wanna know who I'm having sex with. Really? That's what you are interested in. Find a whore for that. NEXT!
I have already explained my belief in the juvenile nature of calling one your boyfriend or girlfriend outside of school. That denotation is for children to explain their feelings for one another to one another.
I, being a grown woman, either have a Husband or a person I am close with and like a lot. Not my man. Not a boyfriend.
If a woman is on the market. Then it is up to her to tell you this. If she wants you to know she has a husband. That's for her to say. It's none of anyone's business, unless she chooses to make it someone's business.
Just a heads up for the pimps and players......Get a better line.
Just a heads up for the single and non single women who get approached......make them feel bad about their disrespect....teach them....make them think about it....save other girls from the insult of that awful ice breaker, "You got a man?"